What if you have been created complete by God already? What if no external person or circumstance could ever do that for you…because it has already been done? Meaning you arrived here that way by design. What if people and things outside of you are there to compliment and draw out who you are, rather than compensate for who you think you’re not?
When it comes to your being, it is not just who you are that matters here…it is who you THINK you are. Zig Ziglar articulately said, “You cannot consistently perform in a manner which is inconsistent with the way you see yourself.” You can actually be free but live as though you are not…because you believe you’re not. You will always live into what you believe about who you are. That is all you can ever do.
Take a look around your life. Consider the areas where you experience frustration (feeling stuck), temporary gains (success that does not last) or imbalance (success in one area of life while other areas suffer). And also consider where you experience ease, increase and aliveness; more thriving with less striving. Notice that your results are a function of alignment. But alignment with what?